a lovely T Shirt with the title of the book. Looks good and spreads the word
$20 including package and postage. Drop me an email; katerowe51@outlook.com

a lovely T Shirt with the title of the book. Looks good and spreads the word
$20 including package and postage. Drop me an email; katerowe51@outlook.com

Actor Lynette Curran is relaunching her book. DREAMS OF TABOO
along with a panel of speakers hosted by Journalist Helen Tzarimas

What a great turnout at Thriroul Library supporting local authors.
I read an extract from my book of my mother’s letter from 1972 about her UK abortion in 1961. This started an hearfelt conversation. Lots of chats after.





Alejandra Martinez is an Australian-Uruguayan writer based in the Blue Mountains, NSW with her debut novel, Salsa in the Suburbs, telling the story of one Latin-American family’s migration to Australia and their exploration of what it means to measure belonging across cultures and time.
Alice Crawley is a speaker, author and film producer with her 2022 novel, On the Way to Wonderland, chronicling her grapple with debilitating drug, exercise and spending addictions which drove her into $185,000 credit card debt, as she battled mental health issues, overdoses and anorexia.
Emma Darragh is a writer and academic published in Cordite, TEXT and Westerly, and her book Thanks for Having Me is a sharp, intimate family portrait about women boxed in by domestic roles, the ache of maternal absence, and the ways one act of leaving reverberates through generations.
Judi Morison is a Gamilaroi writer living on Gumbaynggirr Country whose debut novel Secrets follows three generations of women forced to confront a decades-old truth to heal a fractured family and keep their homestead, Cora, in the family.
Kate Rowe is a Sydney-based LGBTQIA+ rights activist and 1978 Mardi Gras marcher whose debut memoir How the F*ck Would I Know? traces her journey from survival and addiction recovery to political awakening and a life rebuilt through community and endurance sport.
Stepping out is a charity foundation for which celebrities record personal stories of incest and childhood abuse
A jam packed Petersham Bowlo including great supportive celebraties. A lot of genorisity for the auction



Thank you Julia Baird for generously recording my story for the Stepping Out podcast



Excited to be on the panel for this Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras event in partnership with UNSW on the 17th of February 2026.
Mon Schafter | Kath Ebbs | Kate Rowe | Jackie Turner
We’ve come a long way since references to lesbians could potentially land you jail-time and lesbian culture was less visible in literature and the arts, social commentary and public life. From anthemic pop icons Chappell Roan and Billie Eilish to commercially successful flicks like Bottoms and Love Lies Bleeding, lesbian culture is having a moment.
In the fifty years since the rallying cry “Lesbians are Lovely!” was sprawled across walls, bodies and picket boards in the fight for recognition and liberation, there have been many developments in queer identity and culture. But are we making space for all lesbians and how can we celebrate every part of our community?
Join UNSW’s Centre for Ideas for an evening of all things lesbian and lovely. Hosted by Walkley Award-winning journalist, presenter and producer Mon Schafter (they/she) and featuring a trailblazing lineup of panellists, including Kate Rowe (she/her), an activist and advocate ‘78er who marched in the original Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras; Kath Ebbs (they/she) queer actor, presenter and content creator; and Jackie Turner (she/her), trans woman, social justice and climate organiser, and Director of Trans Justice Project.
This event is co-presented by the UNSW Centre for Ideas (in collaboration with Dr Yves Rees) and Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras.
Looking forward to taking part in this lesbian storytelling event on the 5th February 2026.
An evening of intergenerational storytelling
Our annual sellout spoken word event Wise Words is back! Come join us for an evening of intergenerational storytelling.
Wise Words features a line-up of some of Australia’s most prominent and talented LGBTIQ+ women and gender diverse folk.
We are thrilled to announce our 2026 line-up:
Krystal De Napoli (Gomeroi award-winning author, host Indigenuity 3RRR)
Mira Robertson (Grace & Marigold, Head On, Only the Brave )
Jax Bulstrode (writer and poet, Cul de Sac Rabbits)
Candy Bowers (Hot Brown Honey Burlesque)
Kate Rowe (Mardi Gras 78er, author How the F*ck Would I Know?)
Cherry Zheng (winner Island Non-Fiction Prize)
Gabrielle Griffin and Simone O’Brien (Mutton, The Duo).
An intimate talk and conversation with an engaged audience. And a performance by the Wahine Soundz



What a privilage and experience to share some stories from my book How the F*ck would I know?
with Richard Fiedler from ABC Conversations. An incredible man with integrity.
Listen to the podcast here.




This is not a how-to book — because who really knows how to live a life?
Fleeing to Australia as a “Ten Pound Pom” in the 1970s, Kate didn’t expect her demons to follow her. It took facing her truth to break free of the drugs and alcohol that had controlled her since her teens in a desperate attempt to escape the shadow of sexual trauma.
Finally in recovery and stepping into her own, a 26-year-old Kate embraces her sexuality against the backdrop of the first Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras — and is promptly swept into the political and social tensions of the time.
As she builds a new life on the rocky foundations of her beginnings, Kate learns to find the lighter moments, and starts to write. From a kidney donation, to a love letter to her cats, tackling ten Ironman events, and learning ukulele, this collection of stories illustrates a determined woman finding her way through the mess of life with a smile.